Our congregation has a small Blue Christmas service every year sometime before Christmas itself. It's for people who are mourning, or have other reasons for not feeling particularly joyful at Christmas. Since it is small and quiet, we sing less songs, and choose quieter, reflective music. We also use more songs presented by the musicians to provide space. Here are some ideas that might work for small or large gatherings, and either sung by the congregation, or by a soloist or group of singers. At the end of the page are suggestions specifically for Longest Night.
Also consider using recorded music - of a favourite carol or Advent hymn - there are many available.
See also General Advent Suggestions and scroll down for Longest Night songs (if you are in the Northern Hemisphere)
- Online Resource Nothing is wasted (David
Bjorlin) A simple gospel-style chorus, which fits well with the idea
that even difficult times are not a waste. We sang this at our Maundy Thursday service this year, and it would fit well with Blue Christmas. I love this. Sheet music sample and purchasing options. Sound sample.
- Online Resource / ACS901 / GWA098 Now the heavens start to whisper
(Mary Louise Bringle) Excellent words of the whole of creation waiting
for the rod of Jesse to spring forth, set to the Welsh tune SUO GÂN. Sound sample, sheet music sample and choral version for purchase. New words to old tunes.
- Recorded music The word became flesh (The Porter's Gate) Not a congregational song, but could be quite beautiful to play and listen to during a Blue Christmas service. "Glory, one of a kind". It's helpful to provide lyrics if playing recorded music. Sound sample.
- Online Resource / GWA101 / HiOS133 There is no child so small / Carol of the least child
(Shirley Murray) A song crying out to consider the children who are
overlooked by all but God; this seems particularly appropriate this year. HiOS has two tunes; one by Jillian Bray and
one by Colin Gibson (I prefer the latter). Sound sample and lyrics (Colin Gibson tune). Sheet music and lyrics (Jim Strathdee tune). Sound sample (Jim Strathdee tune). Sound sample (Henry Hinnant - Choral version!).
- Online Resource I am dry like the violent summer / Dry
(Paul Somerville) An excellent song seeking refreshment from the living
water and grace of Christ. It will need a little time for teaching, or
ask your musicians to sing it. I am not sure how to get hold of this at the moment, but I have a copy! Sound sample.
- Online Resource God's love here dwells (Jennifer Hughes) A simple and thoughtful song that acknowledges the sadness and complexity of Christmas. Sheet music for purchase here.
- Protest and Praise / Online Resource In our deepest grief / We wait for you (David
Bjorlin / Randall Sensmeier) A beautiful song of waiting, even in
sorrow and fear; not so easy to sing - I would use a soloist. Songbook for purchase. Sound sample (I prefer it to be a little more tentative than this).
- Online Resource / GW095 Holy holy holy O Wisdom from on high / Blessed and Holy
(Bernadette Farrell) This is a setting of some of the O Antiphons which
are sung with the Magnificat in the last week prior to Christmas in
some traditions. They speak of our hope in Jesus to transform the world.
This setting is easy to sing and has great words; I think the hopefulness of this song would be a good fit for Blue Christmas. Sound and sheet music samples and purchasing options.
- CoC28 I didn't hear the angels sing (Iris McCoy) Lovely statement of faith despite not having witnessed the
Christmas events. Simple tune.
- ACS1096 / Cha333 / GtG230 / G(II)550 / GC760 / GWA096 / VU284 Joyful Is the Dark (Brian
Wren) I really like these words which summarise the entire story arc of faith. Hymnals vary widely in the tunes they
have set these lyrics to. GtG uses a really difficult key but the tune
is nice. GWA uses GEARY, which I quite like, but will need to be taught. Lyrics and various sheet music samples.
- Online Resource Christmas come close (Shirley Murray)
Excellent words, sung to a simple hymnlike tune with some really
beautiful images about difficult things and the hope that Christmas
brings. Sheet music and lyrics.
- Online Resource Drawing Nearer (Christopher Grundy)
An excellent contemporary song about the lack of peace within the world
and within our souls, and the desire for God to "steal our hearts -
like a baby". It's great. Free sheet music. Sound sample. I would use this first by a soloist, and invite the congregation to join in as they get the hang of it.
- TiS 693 / AoV1-031 / GA212 Come as you are that's how I want you (Deidre Browne) This song is beautiful, gentle, simple, and very well known. Lyrics and sound sample. A good song to start the service.
- Unknown Source After the ride / He was born (Robin Mann) Not easily accessible, but this has been sung at Brunswick by a soloist at our Blue Christmas service and it's really beautiful. Lyrics.
- ATW 475 / NCYC'01 / SP&P008 Come to the banquet there’s a place for you (Fay White) An
excellent song by Melbourne singer and songwriter Fay White. "Though
you maybe have no money, though you maybe feel unworthy, in your
strength and in your weakness you are welcome, come." If you are
celebrating communion, this might be an appropriate choice - sung in a
more meditative way. Lyrics.
- AoV1-192 / NCH092 / VU433 / GA540 / PH544 / GtG676 / GC758 / GC(II)751 / G(3)858 / CP020 / URW191 / Lau676 Day is done but love unfailing (James Quinn) This is specific for evening services; I think the words for this are really beautiful, the tune very familiar (AR HYD NOS) and the image of unending Light in the midst of death and darkness is full of hope. Lyrics and sound sample.New words to old tunes.
- AoV2-043 / ATFG520 / CoC40 / SFFS 2095 / GC(II)355 / SP&P174 / W&R223 / ZSS63 / VF035 Star-Child (Shirley Murray) A lovely lovely carol. Very easy to sing. A big favourite. This might work well to end the service. Lyrics and sample sheet music.
- ATAR606 / StS121 / FFS50 Nothing is lost on the breath of God (Colin
Gibson) A beautiful song and very easy to sing even if new. "Nothing
is lost on the breath of God, nothing is lost for ever; God's breath is
love, and that love will remain, holding the world for ever. No feather
too light, no hair too fine, no flower too brief in its glory; no drop
in the ocean, no dust in the air, but is counted and told in God's
story." Lyrics and full sheet music. Sound sample.
- Tune In / Online Resource God's Mercy (Sheree Anderson) A
beautiful ballad of healing: "Like the sun upon my skin, I can smile
and take it in, and my wounds begin to heal, that's God's mercy". Free downloadable song book, sound samples & lyrics.
- Online Resource Be with those who wander (Hannah Brown / Benjamin Brody) This is not specifically a Christmas or Advent Song, but invites us to pray for those who are going through difficult times. The tune is quite lovely, and will be picked up fairly quickly I think. Sheet music sample and purchasing options.
- Taizé / CH276 / VU22 / GtG090 / ELW262 / GA283 / A&M053 / G(II)256 / GC332 /
GC(II)340 / G(3)406 / CP094 / W&R166 / PfAS037B / SP28 / URW396 / Lau088 Wait for the Lord (Jacques Berthier) Wait for the Lord whose day is near, wait for the lord, keep watch, take heart. A lovely simple Taize chant. Sheet music, translations and sound samples.
- Online Resource If your Christmas isn't merry (Amanda Udis-Kessler) A thoughtful song, which would probably be best sung by a soloist as a way to welcome the congregation. Lyric video. Sheet music.
- TiS 647 / AoV2-012 / ATN 25 Comfort, comfort all my people
(Robin Mann) Easy to sing, beautiful lyrics. Chorus is “Comfort,
comfort all
my people, with the comfort of my word. Speak ye tender to my people,
all your sins are taken away”. Note that most sources only list 2
verses, but there are two additional (more challenging) verses you may
wish to consider using written for the Christmas Bowl in 1988; thanks to
Simon for alerting me to them. Lyrics (including additional verses), mp3 sample.
- Online Resource Creator God
(Margaret Rizza) Lovely words, and a very simple tune - though I think
it would be best for a soloist. Thanks for the suggestion Jo Rand. Sound sample (track 5) Lyrics.
- AoV2-024 / URW407 Holy Darkness (Dan Schutte) Beautiful words. Might want to use a cantor if this is not familiar to your congregation. Not specifically about Christmas - it's really more Advent-ish. Lyrics and sound samples.
- God Comes Tomorrow (Iona) Give us this year
(Iona) Beautiful words seeking a more mature response to Christmas,
sung to an old hymn tune (NEUMARK). The tune is not familiar to me, but
is not difficult to sing, and if you have a choir, sounds particularly
lovely. New words to old tunes. Lyrics.
- Online Resource Kindle a flame within our hearts (Philip Garside) A beautiful gentle song, with lyrics that can be altered for each week of Advent. Sheet music and lyrics.
- Music by Heart 59 Come light of lights
(Ruth Cunningham) A lovely two-part meditative chant: "Come light of lights into my
heart. Come wisdom of spirit into my heart". It can be sung quite slowly
and meditatively, or more energetically and joyfully, depending on your
context; it can also be split into a round! Two videos: A quick version and a slow version. Good for kids.
- Iona (Enemy of Apathy) Sing my soul when hope is sleeping (John Bell and Graham Maule) "Sing, my soul, when hope is sleeping. Sing when faith gives way to fears; Sing to melt the ice of sadness Making way for joy through tears." Simple to sing. Lyrics (downloads a pdf).
- Unusual Source This quiet night (Monique Lisbon) A beautiful gentle song, best sung by a soloist for reflection, the words pick up Mary's contemplation on her sleeping child. BUC people, there is a copy of this book in our Liturgy Library.
- AA141 / CoC44 The wind blew keen (Colin Gibson) A beautiful carol, with simple straightforward Celtic type
tune. I hope this becomes popular, because it's really lovely, but also acknowledges pain and discomfort. Lyrics.
- ACS908 In a far off place Jesus comes to earth / Jesus coms
(Mary Louise Bringle) Lovely words about Jesus coming to the "weary and worn", sung to a calming and beautiful tune. Sound sample, and sheet music for purchase (but it's a choral version).
- Online Resource / ACS902 Come now O God when our love is forsaken
(David Bjorlin) Reflective words of seeking for God to come in the midst of sadness. Set to a traditional folk tune, which may not be familiar, so will need to be taught. Or perhaps the congregation could just listen. Sound sample, sheet music and lyrics sample and purchasing options. And a new sound sample.
- Taizé / GtG814 / CP563 / PfAS062D In God alone my soul can find rest and peace / Mon Ame Se Repose (Jacques Berthier) A very beautiful chant from Taize. Music and sound samples for practice. Good for kids.
- NCH476 / CH565 / VU716 / WoV781 / LBW294 / ELW596 / GA454 / SFFS 2212 / GtG821 / HPP395 / G(II)427 / GC603 / GC(II)598 / G(3)685 / CP401 / W&R424 / Cha619 / SP296 / URW170 My life flows on in endless song / How can I keep from singing
(Robert Lowry) A wonderful hymn. Lots of great recordings of this are
available too. It's not so great if it is not familiar to your
congregation, but once known, it is worth hanging on to. This is not known so well in Australia... Might be good to end the service on a note of hope. Lyrics & sheet music.Oldy-but-a-goody.
- Recorded music Like Mary and Joseph (John Coleman) A song about a man whose family is broken in a Summer Christmas. Worth a look, particularly if there has been a recent break-up in your congregation. Sound sample and lyrics.
- Unusual Resource It is love (Scott Kearns) This beautiful song is straightforward to sing, and fits well with this service - a song of hope. Youtube and lyrics.
- Online Resource Lullaby
(Christopher Grundy) Oh, this is so beautiful; this song has been used in services at hospices at longest night services, but could also be used at a Blue Christmas service. And I just wanted to list it so you could listen to it too. Youtube.
- Online Resource May you find a light
(The Brilliance) Great song about searching with integrity. Thanks Jon Humphries! Youtube. Could also be used at Epiphany.
Sometimes it's good to sing a standard carol, just slowly and quietly. Some good ones:
- TiS 321 / AHB 245 Coldly the night winds winging (Morris Martin) I think this is one of the most beautiful carols in existence. Lyrics (and a very slow recording).
- TiS 317 / AHB 243 / NCH165 / CH316 / UMH242 / HPP95 / CP131 / CP(E) 59 / W&R210 / 82Hml-084 / StF201 / MP451 Love came down at Christmas
(Christina Rossetti) Needs one small change so that all people are included in our love to each other. NCH does this by replacing "all men" with "neighbour" in the
last verse. I prefer the tune HERMITAGE. Lyrics and odd-looking angels.Oldy-but-a-goody.
- TiS
265 / AHB 193 / AoV1-174 / NCH116 / CH273 / UMH211 / VU001 / LBW034 /
ELW283 / GA285 / HPP92 / GtG088 / PH009 / GC317 / GC(II)323 / G(3)395 / CP089 / CP(E) 32 /
W&R154 / Cha119 / 82Hml-056 / Lau112 / StF280 / MP493 O come O come Emmanuel
(Psalerolium Cantionum Catholicarum) A very well known ancient Advent
song. The lyrical reference to Israel is confusing and this year (2024)
in particular will require some exposition for your congregation. Most
versions are pretty inclusive. Lyrics, sheet music.
There are also two alternate versions (one by Sue Wickham and one by John Henson), set to the same tune, but with more modern lyrics and
ideas. Oldy-but-a-goody and New words to old tunes. There are also some lyrics written specifically for a Blue Christmas service.
- Recorded music Be Still (The Fray) Not specifically Christmassy, but could be very helpful. Thanks to Claire for this suggestion. Youtube. Lyrics.
- NCH131 / CH303 / UMH218 / VU44 / LBW054 / ELW282 / HPP128 / PH038 / GtG123 / GC367 /
GC(II)379 / G(3)433 / CP140/1 CP(E) 56 / W&R191 / Cha153 / Srce2-289 / 82Hml-089 / Lau135 / StF205 It came upon the midnight clear (Edmund Sears) You may not have thought of this (I hadn't!), but look at verse 3, listed in the comments below (though check your hymnal as they vary a bit). Sung slowly and carefully, this could be really beautiful in the setting of this service. Thanks Adrianne for this idea. Lyrics & Sheet music.
- AoV1-165 /
NCH148 / UMH219 / VU074 / LBW040 / ELW296 / HPP138 / PH053 /
GtG145 / GC380 / GC(II)387 / G(3)466 / CP137 / CP(E) 74 / W&R184 / Cha162 / 82Hml-115 / Lau145 / MP749 What child is this? (Dix) You may also like to include a recent verse written by David MacGregor "What love is this who feels our pain". His lyrics here. Oldy-but-a-goody.
You may also like to include a Kyrie.
Longest Night songs
- Online Resource / GWA097 The daylight dims as the sun sinks low (Mary Louise Bringle / Sally Ann Morris) Excellent words of waiting and watching, with each verse ending with the line "this is our longest night". The tune is quite simple, and changes for the third verse. Sound and sheet music samples and purchasing options.
- Recorded music Longest Night (Peter Mayer) This is a lovely and very appropriate song, which you might like to play. Lyrics and source. Sound sample.
- NCH128
/ CH305 / UMH221 / VU055 / ELW294 / HPP115 / PH036 /
GtG144 / CP122 / CP(E) 55 / W&R196 / Srce2-275 / 82Hml-112 / Lau144 / StF204 / MP337 In the bleak midwinter (Christina Rossetti) Beautiful. Very Northern-hemispherific though. Oldy-but-a-goody. Lyrics
- TiS 321 / AHB 245 Coldly the night winds winging (Morris Martin) I think this is one of the most beautiful carols in existence. Oldy-but-a-goody. Lyrics (and a very slow recording).
- HiOS139 Through winter cold (Shirley Murray) Lilting Celtic tune and lyrics of hope in the depths of Winter. Sheet music and lyrics.
- NCH434 / VU530 / HPP275 / PH292 / CP427 All beautiful the march of days (Frances Wile) Snow and cold. Lyrics and sheet music.
- URW418 God comes to us (Dirk Damonte) Very lovely simple song. Could be used as a chant, or at various points during the service. Sound sample.
- Online Resource Behold the night (Richard Bruxvoort-Colligan) This is a simple chant "Behold the night, there are gifts here in the dark, soon the sun returns". Youtube.
- Taizé / A&M847 / GtG294 / G(II)456 / GC644 / PfAS088A / SP330 Within Our Darkest Night
(Jacques Berthier) A lovely chant of continuing hope in the face of despair. Lyrics and sound samples. Good for kids.
- NCH151 / Iona (SBL) / UMH244 / VU071 / LBW072 / ELW284 / HPP119 / PH061 /
GtG142 / G(II)272 / GC361 / CP146 / W&R213 / Cha166 / 82Hml-114 / Lau132 'Twas in the moon of wintertime / Huron Carol (Jean de Brebeuf) I love this one, and it does a good job of adapting the Christmas story to a Native American context. Lyrics and history.
- Online Resource / NCH432 / CH234 Tis winter now; the fallen snow
(Samuel Longfellow) Simple words based on Psalm 74, sung to O WALY WALY. The
words are beautiful, though not completely inclusive in CH234. Lyrics and sample sheet music. New words to old tunes
- VU278 / URW221 In the quiet curve of evening
(Juliana Howards) Beautiful words about God's presence in the spaces of our lives. Simple tune. Lyrics
- MV071 / GC(II)339 / G(3)417 / Online Resource When the wind of Winter blows (Ruth Duck) This is very beautiful, and can be used either as a choral work (online version) or as a congregational song (hymnals). Best if you can teach the two-part refrain to the congregation; you could also use a soloist for the verses. Sheet music and sound samples.
- ACS1096 / Cha333 / GtG230 / G(II)550 / GC760 / GWA096 / VU284 Joyful Is the Dark (Brian
Wren) I really like these words which summarise the entire story arc of faith. Hymnals vary widely in the tunes they
have set these lyrics to. GtG uses a really difficult key but the tune
is nice. GWA uses GEARY, which I quite like, but will need to be taught. Lyrics and various sheet music samples.
- VU078 Sing till sundown hum your joy (Eileen Spinelli) A song for snowy places. This is a quite delightful song of hope "Now we're dancing through the snow"! Lyrics.
- VU181 Midnight sharpness starfields fading (Neil Lemke / David Kai) Quite nice gentle Winter evening song. Lyrics, and link to video.
- NCH434 / VU530 / HPP275 / PH292 / CP427 All beautiful the march of days (Frances Wile) Winter snow and ice. Sung to the familiar tune FOREST GREEN. Lyrics and sample sheet music. New words to old tunes.
- Taizé / A&M847 / GtG294 / G(II)456 / GC644 / PfAS088A / SP330 Within Our Darkest Night
(Jacques Berthier) A lovely chant of continuing hope in the face of despair. Lyrics and sound samples. Good for kids.
Over to you... Do you have some ideas that you might be using in a similar service this year?
